What do you do when you send a message to someone, and that person sees the message and does not respond? ,
Back to Community discussions#1 ziyadmohammed
What do you do when you send a message to someone, and that person sees the message and does not respond? ,
#2 ziyadmohammed
If this thing happened to me with someone I don't know, I would not and will not send anything to them again, and if I knew them I would at least send them one more time.
#3 GeorgeWu
Usually if I send someone a message and if he or she didn't respond back to me for a day or two, I will just send a secondary follow up message. If that doesn't work, I will just move on.
#4 daszekmdn
I'm have trauma of this, so I'm afraid about I've done something wrong, I'm afraid of that person, etc etc too long to write. I hate these situations. Just panic and 1000000 red alerts in my head. If someone does not want to hurt me very much they should not do so if we are friends or have any other relationship.
#5 ziyadmohammed
i agree with you
#6 Sir-Charlie
Murder them.
#7 ArcticMoon
Thanks Daszek, well deserved.
#8 techboy
usually if they're online a lot, i wait like a week or 2 and then i follow up with hello? Did you see my previous message? Or something like that, and if they don't respond to that a week or so later I follow up with testing testing 123 123 or somthing along those lines.
#9 khalil2009
I send the swot team after them
#10 ahmadsabbah
As for me, depending on the person, if he is a close person, I worry about him, and I try to contact him more than once, but if this person is not close, I will completely ignore the situation, but that does not prevent me from sending another message in order to let him know that i called him
#11 aims
in my case, I would wait like a day or two and then try messageing again. and yes, if it's someone i'm very close with I over think, like what if I did or said something wrong
#12 Julitka
It mostly depends on the person, the relationship and my own emotions regarding the message/the situation I'm referring to. I mean, if I wrote something, lets say, controversial, or may be I wrote something that may cause big emotions (positive or negative), asked an important question etc, I may get worried after an hour. :) I am jealous of every second he/she doesn't replay. That's an illness, I know. ;) But if not, I don't care. Unfortunately, in most cases I believe I made a mistake, I wrote something wrong, someone dislikes or disrespects me etc. That's my problem, not theirs, but anyway.
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#13 fikretagayev
same here. (aims):
in my case, I would wait like a day or two and then try messageing again. and yes, if it's someone i'm very close with I over think, like what if I did or said something wrong
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#14 KamiKitsune
I would get pist. like real freaking pist. then I'd calm down, find there location, then send em 100 box of pizzas. that'le teach em to not reply to my messages after reading em...
#15 ShuJou
i go out side, maybey touch the grass and think little bit, walking and thing like this if not close, if close i think think and asking what happen to you
#16 meldorin
if this person was even somehow dear to me, I would be very worried, afraid that I had said something wrong. usually, if it's a person very close to me, or in other special cases, I start having stomach problems from a lot of stress. many people left my life like that without explaining what I did wrong. but you know, ignoring messages is not so scary, it's scary ignoring a situation when you both know that you or the other person did something wrong, but for some reason you don't want to solve it. it can break relationships, friendships, and anything with its invisible weight. please people, talk to people, explain to them what they did wrong, even if you send them to hell right after.
#17 chai
I usually feel sad and scared because if this is some close person i start thinking about what could i do wrong? But if just some random then i don't care. But i really think of too much situations wen someone close ignores me
#18 daszekmdn
Why these situations occurs? Because main parts of the world don't know how to talk about problems, so they decide to cut the contact if something is wronk without any information.
This only shows their weakness, not yours, but it hurts just the same.
There is apathy on people problems in the world. Today you are there, tomorrow you are gone and most won't even know it. Sorry for sadnes reflections, but i read one article which only strengthened my conviction of the general human indifference