Love, cupples, cheating ETC

Maybe you're not in the right mental headspace to be in a relationship or stuff?
Or, simply, you might see women only as platonic friends, nothing more, which, is completelly ok, nothing wrong with it. It's out of the norm, but not wrong indeed.
Or maybe you didn't even find the right person, or girl, or guy, or...ok don't kill me, everything is possible! :D But yeah, let's leave it at the right girl, how a lot of people say and sure told you, but I'm sure you're tired of hearing it, now, just let time do its thing, if you fall for someone it's ok, if not, that's ok too, you could find happyness without dating, aswell.

Maybe you got a kind of trauma and unconshusly blocked that feeling or something.

Yeah, that's possible, too.

yeah, I probably just need time because I sometimes get the feeling I'm just not ready to be committed yet.

That sounds pritty normal actually. I think teen relationships are not sirious in general, even when you think they are.

Fully agreeing with Diana. And no monkey, it depends where you are sometimes, how old the people are, if they're actually knowing what love and relationships are etc. And well I think falling for noone is probably good if you have a nice amount of friends. Crushes fade. But good friends won't! I sadly have to tell myself and I'm jellous because you don't crush on people tbh. It's way to easy and tempting where I'm at sadly. Way to many atractive people. Often that then gives the feeling we're not good enough but that's not the truth. A friend of mine once said, if they don't see your worths and the good person you are than it's their own bad luck and that they don't know what they miss. He was true with this 1 simple thing.

When I was a teenager, I never had the urdge or need to date anyone. For me when you get older, love becomes clearer.

Daaaaaaaaamn... That would make me seriously angry... I am highly monogamous.
-- (thespyde):
My third marriage ended when she fell for someone else, this after I'd spent loads of money to move to the UK to be with her. She wanted me to stay and they'd share, um, no thanks.

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I didn't know the true depths my anger could soar to till that happened.

I like to wate for love to come to me, and I'm only 13 so girls are not my thing right now anyways.

That doesn't have to do with age always.

Of course from a certain age on but like.

It'd be super cool to find somebody, but I'm not really looking at the same time. Who knows, maybe elten will be that place where I meet that special someone. If not, I'm sure God has other plans.

it would be nice to find a girl but I'm going to wate to start dateing but if someone likes me and they pruve to be a good person then sure but I'm not activly going out of my way to find someone

@93, well personally I find internet relations to be extremely dumm. But nowadays I'll be judged for saying that but we all know that those relations really arn't the real thing. And also all the real life girls here are better than those blind internet ones for sure.

Since I met the one I'm now married to on the Internet I must respectfully disagree.

Yeah well, but this now is a real life relation. I only talk about dating on the net. You can maybe have cool friendship starting in the net and then going over to real life, that's completely ok for me at least, since I know someone in my family who's blind to and met his future wife on qc at that time.

Hard to say, then, that the Internet isn't a good place for dating or whatever.

Again, maybe I misunderstood you but how can you date on the net. It's so much harder. All you do is say things or write texts. Sure you can get to know the people on the net first, but if you have your relationship only via the net, you never see each other ever, never hug, don't share real love then nah forget it. And you can't marry via net or is that possible nowadays. We probably talk past each other but maybe you get what I'm trying to say.

Getting to know one another is rather limited, and no, one can't get married on the net but a relationship can be properly formed if done right.