Thanks for the advice. It is just, I am really nurvus about it and I'm really stuck on what to say. Ya know what I mean?

I know. But I've been there too. And if it goes bad, surround yourself with friends who you're sure they'll support you. Online or real life doesn't matter.

ok

meh, online dating with blindies is bs. but yeah, I'm 16, have not been in a relationship yet (thankfully I guess as I can see everyone's sad stories). But seriously, I feel you folks.

I agree with you. It's not like many teens are already sad to watch nowadays, but blinds arn't any better, especially those who're only living in their gaming comunity 24/7. I think about a certain girl

yup, well said

exactly

It's not just the blind community; it's everywhere. The only difference is that everyone here knows each other. But watching all this drama is not even funny anymore. I have nothing against online dating; I've seen a few sort of successful cases, but these kids don't even know what dating is. Like, "We met in a game, then we went on tt for 5 minutes, and, oh dear, you are my soulmate! Let's write about everything that is happening in our relationships in our statuses and talk about it everywhere until we break up, just so everyone knows!". I mean, I understand if someone wants to share their feelings and other stuff, but I don't really care that you and your girlfriend had an argument last night because she played STW or opened Playroom while you were sleeping, and now you're going to break up with her.

Big like, well said.

yup

Well I am in a happy relationship for the last 5 years and I have learned a lot since then.
There comes a point where you understand that it's not a crush anymore and get to experience what love really is.
It's not always a fairytale, it's a rocky road and sometimes we will make mistakes, sometimes our other half might make mistakes.
I'm not talking cheating here, etc, although everything has some kind of an explanation.
It's the little things, which make a big difference. Talking to each other, putting our trust into each other, being able to be honest, sincere, vulnerable with our partner.
If we have found someone worth our time, energy and resources, then no matter how the emotional roller coaster makes us feel from time to time, we will always be thinking back to our lover and we will understand that there is no one like them in this world.
Remember one more thing, folks.
Before love, comes friendship.
The butterflies, the lovey dovey, romantic aspect fades away after some time, or at least it becomes more difficult to cultivate and requires effort, engagement, commitment. The only way to keep it going and make the relationship develop, grow and not become toxic in the process, is to also be good friends with our partner.

nicely said.

Hi,
I am looking for a good dateing app that is accessable and doesn't require a pay wall. I've tried hinge and match. I have had the most luck with hinge, until we get to the part about "I'm Blind" and then they stop talking to me.
I don't know what to do

This is kinda not the thread for this.

Maybe put in the biography you can have on those stuff, that you're blind?
While that can save you some trouble, you might also get people who talk toyou only because of morbid curiosity, or, rude comments.


-- (TheBlindTechGuy):
Hi,
I am looking for a good dateing app that is accessable and doesn't require a pay wall. I've tried hinge and match. I have had the most luck with hinge, until we get to the part about "I'm Blind" and then they stop talking to me.
I don't know what to do

--

sigh. If this is a dating topic now... Lemmi say it right there. Those apps are bullshit. Get some real life friends you can hangout with and it may continue from there. Just, saying...

There are some people that preffer dating apps.
Why?
IDK don't ask me. But, I express myself better through writing also mostly, so I can kind of...get that for a first conversation/interraction it might be better?
But, if they're happy, it's ok.

yeah but lol this is so ironic considering dj's post. You don't even have a friendship and start dating random people behind a shit phone? I mean, o, k...

Like this is basically what the users do.

Anyway this is offtopic. Nothing about dating apps here plus that's probably for another forum even, idk.