Hey guys. This is a little thread of mine were we can talk about the stuff the topic mensioned. Share your experience with relations, talk about love, all that stuff. Feel free to help each other in here, write something, what ever. I created this because i'm actually in a situation i don't know what to do in. Basically i'm in a new class/school for 7 weeks now. Problem is. Someone seems to kinda love me, but i love someone else. But i really couldn't love that person loving me at all but i also can't tell the person i love of what is the case but like everyone starts to know it, so, i dunno. If you have something similar, or just like the topic, feel free to reply

My third marriage ended when she fell for someone else, this after I'd spent loads of money to move to the UK to be with her. She wanted me to stay and they'd share, um, no thanks.

Love is complicated.
Sometimes.

Update of mine. I told the person what is going on in me. But maybe, maybe she is to yung or maybe, she just isn't into the love topic yet, i dk. Now i have messed up sleep its 10 17 AM right now, i sit here, wish i could talk to any sord of friend i have, but they all are sleeping or what ever. This ones again is a moment where i wish to have a time machine, that it'll change, but maybe i need the time to help me ones again. Maybe some weeks of pain and then its over. Now is a week holiday so i even can't see her.

We don't know each other, but whatever. I'm here. I know how it feels to want to talk to someone, but not have anyone.

well i have one from the US, but he's not available right now i guess, at least he didn't replyed to my last message, just to some

Well you don't know the storry but well, i'm 15, she's 13, maybe she's to yung, maybe she don't wants to have that kinda relation stuff yet, i really, don't know. People believed in me when i told her what is going on and how much i like her but well, now what it did to me it messed up my sleep, i'm still awake, i'm sad, not sure if i did the right thing, i'm frustrated, now are holidays, i don't want to talk to my parents about this, and i won't see her for a week and some days, which means no nice voice, no nice smelling, character, no talking with each other, i mean i have her discord but what should i write. If i don't have something really to say, i better shouldn't say anything. But yeah not sure if i write to much detail publicly in here but yeah. The hones want to know about it can reply here, or what ever, i should go to bed now

Hello first of all you need to take it easy and do things calmly everything will be ok everything will be ok

2026 edit:
Sorry people, my English back then sucked, and I didn't have a big vocabulary. I'll leave it as it is, just because I'm too lazy to rephrase it.
Original post:
I know that feeling. It hurts horribly bad to know that that person you would give everything for, with whom you fell madly in love, who is currently (emphasis on currently) the center of your universe, doesn't feel the same way about you.
They say that time heals all wounds. But that doesn't mean that time doesn't become eternal when it hurts.
Everyone says that everything will be fine. Will be. And I know your brain wants to kill them for telling you with that verb pulling into the future.
But it's the truth. Someday you will feel nothing more of the love that tortures you today.
But until then, you have to suffer, you have to fight, and then learn from this experience.
You can. Come on. You are neither the first nor the last it happens to.
Let your emotions flow. Don't block them. Take advantage of this time you have away from her to let the blood from the wound (metaphorically speaking) flow. Listen to all the sad, romantic, or whatever songs you want. Read all the romantic stories you want and imagine that you are there with her.
Try to release your emotions with someone. It can be therapeutic. I'm here if anything.
There is no predetermined time to forget, but be careful because it could become an obsession too. Although, if you realize that it's an obsession, it could be too late.
That is why it is advisable to surround yourself with people. They will surely tell you, if they are real friends, when you will go from the line of intense crush to obsession.
You will see that, over time, when listening to romantic songs, reading things about love, etc., you will not think about her. It won't happen overnight. It's not like if you read Romeo and Juliet in the afternoon you think about her, and the next morning you read it again and don't think about wanting to be with her in some parts. But yes, with the passage of time, your heart will no longer see her as the right person.
Little secret: to forget about my crush, it always helped me to find another crush. Weird? Yes. Xdd.

To the second poster. I’m sorry to heare about what happened to your marriage. To the original poster, you will stil find another one. There is stil time and things will happen when they must. I’ve never dated when I was a teenager, so this is just in general. But I can understand it when a person is longing for someone.

Thanks, Louisa. I'm now with someone who loves me and I love her back big time! Our relationship is beautiful and stable!

That’s good. Glad to heare/read that.

my girlfriend broke up with me over text after she spent the weekend with her EX, and went back to him.

ouch.

yeah. painful as hell.

Do you have people/friends you can be with who can help you in this situation though?

ain't none.

she would always tell me that she'd never leave me, and that she and i had a connection that could not be broken, and here it is, broken, and the memories that she and i shared are nothing but dust in the wind.

People say its always boys but I rather think it's many girls being tocsic nowadays. At least like that

the sad part is, i should've saw it coming, since she was going to be with him for a weekend. i felt something changing last night, and i couldn't sleep.