Love, cupples, cheating ETC

Exactly, I agree. If the intention is to meet in real life, a bit of a necessary sacrifice is ok.

Of course. But that is what I ment. As long as it is not virtually 90% of the time

revive time. So 2 days ago, I discovered my longtime partner had been cheating on me. I had to break up with her, it hurts like hell.

This is a serious matter, but the signature at the end absolutely shattered me.
That aside, I'm sorry to hear that. Hopefully you have the strength to heal and grow from this

Wow, man, that really sucks!